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Please Answer….2nd posting! Love is not a choice…it’s a destiny!?

Sorry this is long but, please answer!
My boyfriend is a wonderful, sweet, sexy, funny man….who drinks too much and turns cruel. This is a very new behavior for him, at least with me. We’ve been together for over a year and just moved in together in January. We are in the process of trying to buy the house we are renting, looking to get a dog, and have even talked about trying to have children. All these things were his ideas.
St. Patricks Day he, being Irish, was quiet drunk…as was I. I started feeling poorly so I told him I was going home and that he was welcome to stay…he came home several hours later, very angry with me for making a fool out of him in front of his friends…Acting very irrational. Things haven’t been right since. He has basically been on a bender since then and won’t even talk to me. He says that he’s moving out, but it’s been almost a month and not even a t-shirt has been packed. He still comes home everynight after the bar closes, but no talking. Help!

There is no destiny, and you can sure make the choice that someone not worth your love, isn’t going to have it anymore.

If you are tired of the situation, fix it or move on. Make it clear his behavior is unacceptable, or deal with him continuing to do what he’s doing and suck it up and make the best of it.

The choice is yours as to what to tolerate. Discuss with him the situation…if he won’t speak with you about it, perhaps that will tell you a lot about where your relationship currently stands.

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